How to fire up your confdence after that silly break up?
Monday, October 9th, 2006Does that break-up scene still linger to your mind? Those tears falling from your eyes as he is saying “we’re over”? And most of all, the sleepless nights while you are thinking about him, is he doing fine? Does he cry when you broke up? Then you must get over it, girl! Here are some of my advices on how to fire up your confidence after that silly break-up.
First, let your tears fall from your eyes. You cannot expect that lonely feelings to be out of system immediately. Cry, cry and cry, and while you are crying, think if that guy really deserves to shred a tear with. But if you are a kind of person who does not express their anger by crying, you can punch your couch or everything you wish to punch. Does he stepped on your feminity? Then, break anything you wish to break. Just be sure that your mom will not get angry because you have destroyed your entire house.
Next, after almost endless nights of crying, then step out of your room and go to mall or any place where you and your friends can enjoy each others company. Remember, your friends are those who will lend a shoulder whenever you have a problem. Go shopping with them, buy the newest pair of shoes, eat chocolates and indulge with them at your favorite salon. Indulge in sweets without anything to worry about. Don’t mind the calories that you will be consuming, anyway, you are single again so celebrate it!
After you indulge with your best girl friends, you should get more closer to your family. Anyways, they are your family and they care for you more than your friends. Have a dinner with them, watch late night news with your dad, help your mom in preparing your family’s meal, and play playstation 2 with your brother, have a coffee with your uncle, read magazines with your sassy cousins. Remember the times when you’ve taken them for granted because you spend more time with your boyfriend? Then this is the time when you can spend more time with them. Lastly, after all the things you’ve done in order to forget about your heartaches, pray to our Lord God because he make a way for you and your former boyfriend to go on your separate ways. Think of it, if you ended up with that kind of person, what your life will be? Thank also your former boyfriend because he made you more stronger, and a better person. He taught you how to love and be loved. He shaped you as who you are today, and he taught you how to be more careful of choosing a new boyfriend.
Forgiveness can easily be given to him, but it’s really hard to forget everything. The happy moments, the time you were with him, the lies you have said to your mom just to be with him. I know you think that he will stay, but its seemed like he just passed by. I suggest you to hear the song “hiling” b the band “paramita” and the song “my happy ending” by Avril Lavigne. Remember, we are all beautiful citizens of the world no matter what! Always put on your mind that circumstances that you have gone through makes you more wiser and much more stronger in facing other problems.
